Don't Be That Girl

boys. let's get to the truth. they are life ruiners. they come in here acting like they own the world, steal our hearts, and then what? i'm not one of those girls who hates all boys. but i do see a boy and just "love" him. i don't mean real love, i mean "love". it's more of a deep attraction that makes me say, "i am going to marry him and have his babies." i'm kidding here people, well a little bit. i see girls trying to get guys all the time. and i notice that they go about it the wrong way. girl get your shit together. boys don't want a girl to be skanky and easy. well some do, but lets face it we don't want or need those boys. so here are some tips on what NOT to do.

• do not text him repeatedly. this goes for everyone. i don't care if you are starting to crush or been dating for 5 years. clingy is never cool. you hear me? NEVER! just don't. 
• do not get jealous, and if you can't do that don't show it. while sometimes guys think it's cute that their girl is jealous, most find it annoying. be confident and don't let the boy think otherwise. keep your friends close and your enemies closer. 
• do not cute text him. you know what i mean by this. let's give an example. "HEYYYYY! :) OMGSH you are too presh! aren't you just adorbs!! :)" NO this is not acceptable! it looks like you're some crazy ass valley girl who can't handle talking like a normal person. 
• do not stalk him. whether this be in person or in private on your computer. it's okay to look him up once on fb, but don't obsess over what he's doing, who he's with, and where he's at. YOU ARE NOT HIS GIRLFRIEND. and if you are have some trust for your man. and if you can't trust him don't date him. 
• do not tell random people that you are talking. if you start telling people and he gets word of this, he will freak. 
• do not assume that he feels the same way. it can be scary to have feelings for a new guy, but you cannot think a 'hey' means 'i love you'. 

these are some simple rules that all girls should remember. sometimes it's hard for us to follow them because well we are girls. so when you finally do get that guy that is beyond perfect. keep him close and don't scare him away. 

"immature love says: 'i love you because i need you.' mature love says 'i need you because i love you.'--Erich Fromm

xoxo

-Sam

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